My Bride had? terminal bone cancer

I'll not mince any words...she has terminal
bone cancer, or metastatic spinal lesions resultant from her bout with
breast cancer.   Given what is about
to come down the pike, there is no way she could have dealt with any of
that in her current physical condition, so GOD in his infinite wisdom
is making things happen so she won't have to suffer the consequences of
dealing with what the enemy has in store for us.
The plan is to manage her pain, and develop a plan of action for the
next weeks.  The Doctor told us this afternoon that 1-3 months is what
is indicated, and that outside of a miracle, her prognosis is being with
the LORD soon.
Lindy told me earlier today "See darlin'?  They took my birthday away after all."  That's July 15th.
They took more scans and chest x-rays, and
found cancerous bone lesions in her ribs, sternum, and pelvis.  So,
cancer has taken over her body's bones, and bone cancer is one of the
most painful to endure.  Pain management is tantamount at this time, and
they are steadily improving their protocol to make that happen.   She's
getting intravenous morphine every 2 hours, and it keeps her pain at
bay enough for her to be alert and coherent, and yet deal with her pain
level.
Because she's alert, and coherent, with correctly managed pain, they
have enrolled her in a hospice program, to provide the equipment and
care to allow her to come home for her last days.

It's nice to have this family
here to share with, because there's not an awake non 501-C-3 Church in
75 miles with whom we can fellowship.
I've been regularly emailing Doug Hagmann and Steve Quayle, and they
have both emailed and called, with encouragement and asking if I needed
anything.  I told them if they could give me about 10 hours of sleep,
and a chimp that I could coax into a bunch of heavy lifting in the next
few days, I'd appreciate it.  They've included us in their intercessor's
prayer lists, which is what we need.  God will have to step up to the
finances on this thing, 'cause we ain't got any extra.  
Lindy came  home from the hospital today,
thanks to the wonderful folks at Hospice.  She is resting comfortably
now after a frenzied greeting by the fuzzy butts.

My prayers are with you, that GOD will carry your whole family through this valley and soon we all will be dancing before the throne as the bride of Christ.

so sorry to hear that....I have had two bouts with cancer,so I know and understand a little bit....I will remember her in my prayers,and you too

Pray people, pray! Pray for a miracle healing, pray for the Hospice people to be guided and blessed, pray for the family to be comforted. I'm going to pin this so it won't get lost in the day to day conversations.

Wedunit, please keep us updated as things progress. Our prayers are with you, brother.

Am also praying.....

Praying, brother!

So sorry for your wife. I pray you a miracle.

Hi Wedunit,

I'm so sorry to hear of your wife. I will lift you both up in prayer. I understand some of what you are going through as I am in my own cancer battle as well. I have colo-rectal cancer that has spread to my lungs. The finances for this are in the Lord's hands as we don't have the funds to pay for it. I have been told by one doctor that I won't survive this, that I have zero percent chance of coming through it. Chemo gives me a 3% chance only. So we have opted to take the natural route--diet and supplements. So far, we are seeing improvements. I know the Lord is in control, and I rest in that. I pray that you and your wife will continue to have the Lord's peace. I also ask for prayer for my husband and I as we travel this route as well. I am SOOOOOO very grateful that we have the Lord who gives us hope and eternal life. Praise be to Him! If there is anything specific I can pray for, please do let me know.

sincerely,

friharbor

We'll pray for you too friharbor. I will be soooooo glad when Yahweh finally lifts this curse that we've all been under for the last 6000-ish years and we receive those new uncorruptable bodies.

i'm so sorry to hear this, as i am dealing with the same thing right now with my dad. bone cancer, hospice, the works. rest assured there will be prayer coming your way, brother.

My heartfelt empathy goes out to you Wedunit and for your loving wife to have to travel this hard and painful path that life has thrown to her. Being the carer for your loved one is very difficult for you as physical and emotional tiredness both take over and it is a time like this you need the help of others to just give you a few hours break to gather yourself together to enable you to return refreshed and to encourage Lindy. I understand because I lost my first husband 23 years ago as well as a few friends from this dreadful disease, two others are in remission from breast cancer 8 years down the line and are continuing with good health, another friend had her last course of chemo last week. Where we live in the east coast of N.Ireland there seems to be an increase in the numbers of people who have been diagnosed with one type of cancer or another over the last 20 hears for some unknown reason. There are success stories too so just keep trusting the Lord for healing, as miracles can, and do happen.
And Friharbor, my thoughts and prayers are for your healing too, it is a hard burden you to have to bear. God Bless xx

I'm so sad to hear these things.Keeping y'all in my prayers that He may lift some of the burden and pain...

So very sorry to hear of your wife's condition. I will be praying for you, that will care for her in the Lord's strength and peace, and that she will be as pain free as possible. Also that the Lord's perfect plan whatever that will be is confirmed to you and you both rest in His Everlasting hope.

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Those who have never visited forums do not understand how you can get emotionally attached to folks. But, my heart breaks and I weep for my friend wedunit for the suffering that was not intended. I praise God that He sent His Son who has overcome the world. In whom we can rejoice. This is where we are commanded to comfort one another with these words. "Fear not, for first the dead shall rise in Christ and then those who are alive shall rise up together with them to meet them in the air."

wedunit,
I will pray for your wife through our Lord, asking that she be kept from pain as much as possible and that she be comfortable.

I also will pray for you that you be given through Him the strength health and love to get you through your difficult time.

No response is necessary, devote your time and energy to her, we understand fully.

Sincerely,
David Spring

How are you Wedunit? Have not heard from you in a while. Praying the peace of our LORD sustains you.

Praise the Lord, written in our DNA is the message to heal. I shall continue to pray for her and you.

Praise God, wedunit. We needed some good news around here for a change. We'll keep on praying for Lindy that she continues to improve.

Thanks for the update. I've been thinking of her. Glad to hear she is doing better and hopefully had a nice mother's day.

This is great news! : )

Glory to GOD! Please keep us updated Wedunit.

What wonderful news, Lindy is such a beautiful name. Beautiful lady, I'm thanking Father right now for her improvement!

Excellent news! I will keep praying for the both of you!

Through Him, all things are possible. Through His love, all are redeemable. Through His stripes, all of ours are healed. So thrilled to hear your wife's improvement wedunit! Praise Jesus!

We will continue to pray Wedunit!

Wedunit, what beautiful news for this Sunday morning. Thank you for keeping us up to date on things.

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Dear Wedunit I am so sorry to hear your news, very hard to know what to say to you at such an emotional and hard time for you.  I trod the same road about 25 years ago and can empathasise with
you, I know that it sounds trite for people to say "We'll pray for you" but believers prayers do and am sure you know without me saying it, do give us the lift and strength at the times when we need
it most, I know it did help me to carry on each day.  Our lives are indeed short and the  happy times and love that you both have shared will always remain with you. It is also the 'knowing' that you will meet up again which is the 'Blessed Hope' that only our dear Lord can give us and will see you both through this terrible experience. May the Lords presence be very close to you both at this time.  Love and God Bless
Doreen xx

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I'm so very sorry, praying for you my friend. She is a beautiful Lady and a blessing to you, I could tell by the way you speak about her. God bless you.

I'm sorry to hear this, wedunit.  May the Lord comfort both of you and give you strength.  I will keep you in my prayers.

Larry,
I am so sorry to hear this news!
I've prayed for the Lords love and comforting for both of you!
Very sad news.

Dave S.

I am praying for you at this time. I wish I could do more.
Rita.

be comforted and encouraged, my friend...

Dear Wedunit, you both are in my thoughts and prayers at this awful time. May our Heavenly Father
envelop you both with his love at this awful time and give you the much need strength to endure the emotional pain you are going through. Much love xx

So sorry.

I pray the Lord continue to give you His Strength, Love and Peace.  
The gifts of your giving of yourself, your heart, as you've come through
this together is far more precious than words can say.

I just saw this...I am so sorry wedunit! Take solace in God's Promises and find strength in His Word. You two will be reunited again. Meanwhile, we are all here for you if you need.
In Him

Lindy went to be with her LORD Wednesday evening, 8:30 Mountain time. Thanks for all your prayers and kind words. Pray that I can hold up for the next few days.

Quote :

Lindy didn't want any kind of service or gathering at this time. However, in the Spring, when the sun is shining, the flowers are blooming and the birds are singing, we will inter her cremains in a little country cemetery called the Lone Pine Cemetery, in Bigfork, Montana. http://tinyurl.com/n2vl58a

Whatever family (There's not many) can attend and remember, a Pastor friend will be there to give a salvation message, focusing on the resurrection and life eternal. There will be the opportunity for whoever desires, to meet at a fellowship get-together after.

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